Ford helps stars beat addiction ‘Center changed so many lives’ LOS ANGELES, July 9, (Agencies): Long before it became reality show fodder, Betty Ford helped create the original celebrity rehab.
The center that bears her name has a legacy of rehabbing Hollywood’s elite. In the process it became a household name, a punchline, but - above all - a highly respected addiction treatment center.
Since its opening in Rancho Mirage, California, in 1982, stars such as Elizabeth Taylor, Johnny Cash and, most recently, Lindsay Lohan have been among the more than 90,000 people who have received treatment at the center.
Taylor met one of her husbands, Larry Fortensky, while in treatment. Kelsey Grammer credited his stay there with saving his life. So too did Oscar-winner Marlee Matlin, who paid tribute to the former first lady on social networking site Twitter on Friday evening.
“She & Betty Ford Center helped me beat my addiction & she was an angel to many,” Matlin wrote. Betty Ford died Friday at the nearby Eisenhower Medical Center at the age 93.
Located in the desert about two hours east of Hollywood, the Betty Ford Center is by no means the closest place offering addiction treatment. But its association with entertainment industry came from its reputation as a place where addicts - famous or not - could get top-notch care.
“One Day at a Time” actress Mackenzie Phillips, another Betty Ford alumna, wrote on the site, “RIP Betty Ford. A pioneer in treatment of addicts. We owe Mrs Ford our gratitude and prayers. And love. She was one classy woman.”
Grateful
Ali McGraw, who was treated at the center in 1986, said in a statement Friday that she is grateful for what Ford has done for her.
“She changed so many of our lives with her courage and intelligence, her honesty and humility, and her deep grace,” McGraw said. “Her vision impacted my own life as few people have.”
Taylor’s first stay at the center came in 1983 and provided another high-profile face to those struggling with addiction.
Cash soon became a patient after he broke five ribs and relapsed into abuse of painkillers. “I ended up in the Betty Ford Center for 43 days,” Cash told The Associated Press in 1986. “I’ve had no drugs since then. It has been the best three years of my life, the most productive and the happiest.”
Other musicians, including Aerosmith frontman Steven Tyler and jazz singer Etta James, who battled heroin addiction, also received treatment at Betty Ford.
One of Ford’s defining characteristics was her candor, and that included confronting her own addiction head-on. She revealed a longtime addiction to painkillers and alcohol 15 months after leaving the White House, and regularly welcomed new groups of patients to rehab with a speech that started, “Hello, my name’s Betty Ford, and I’m an alcoholic and drug addict.”
“People who get well often say, ‘You saved my life,’ and ‘You’ve turned my life around,’” Ford once said. “They don’t realize we merely provided the means for them to do it themselves, and that’s all.”
Iterations
The center distinguished itself from later iterations of rehabs that catered to the wealthy, ones that resembled spas more than an environment to honestly confront one’s demons. In recent years the stigma of rehab has lessened to the point that it has become fodder for reality television, with shows such as VH1’s “Celebrity Rehab” and A&E’s “Intervention” showing both the impact of drug abuse and offering some insight into its treatment.
But the Betty Ford Center wasn’t part of the trend. Ford was fine with famous patients discussing their treatment at the center - provided they stayed sober - but the facility keeps its clients confidential.
In 1996, Grammer described to Jay Leno how his treatment at Betty Ford helped restore his joy of living. The comedian also quipped about the center’s stature and its famous patients.
“When I was on my way to the Betty Ford Center, I turned to one of my friends and said, ‘You know, I’ve finally made it. I’m going to the Betty Ford Center,’” he said.
When a judge sent Lohan to the center for three months late last year, many experts said it would be her best shot at recovery.
“There’s no place that’s better with chemical dependency than Betty Ford,” Jeffrey C. Friedman, a substance abuse counselor at the Cottonwood Tucson center and a recovering heroin addict, said at the time.
“She was a wonderful wife and mother; a great friend; and a courageous First Lady,” former president George H.W. Bush said in a statement on Friday. “No one confronted life’s struggles with more fortitude or honesty, and as a result, we all learned from the challenges she faced.”
Honor
In a statement Friday, President Barack Obama said the Betty Ford Center would honor Mrs Ford’s legacy “by giving countless Americans a new lease on life.”
“As our nation’s First Lady, she was a powerful advocate for women’s health and women’s rights,” the president said. “After leaving the White House, Mrs Ford helped reduce the social stigma surrounding addiction and inspired thousands to seek much-needed treatment.”
Meanwhile, Ford, turned her battles with addiction and breast cancer into triumph as she overcame them and helped others follow suit.
Speaking openly about her fight with breast cancer and her dependence on prescription drugs and alcohol, Ford removed much of the stigma attached to both devastating illnesses and aided others battling the same demons.
Nancy Reagan, a fellow former first lady, hailed Ford as an “inspiration” through her work to educate women about breast cancer and her Betty Ford Center.
Ford’s life as a politician’s wife appeared to take a toll, as her husband, Gerald R. Ford, went from congressman to vice president to US president. He died in December 2006.
Fragile
“My dad was gone from home a lot,” Ford’s daughter Susan Ford Bales told Parade magazine in a 2005 interview. “Mother was almost like a single mom, raising kids, running a house — the perfect Barbie doll wife. Like many women, she felt totally overwhelmed, undervalued and unappreciated. I thought she was a superwoman, but every woman is fragile after a point.”
After Ford suffered what Bales referred to as her first nervous breakdown, doctors prescribed tranquilizers, sleeping pills and other medication.
“Doctors then were often more eager to give women pills than to listen to them,” Ford told Parade.
But once she became dependent on the drugs, her daughter became frightened.
“I was scared,” Bales recalled in the interview. “I wanted back the mother I admired and loved. I didn’t want to see her downtrodden, stumbling, making no sense, dying.”
Bales was instrumental in staging the intervention that eventually led her mother to recovery.
“After her treatment and recovery, mother was like a bud that had opened,” Bales told Parade. “The rose was very beautiful to see. Mother’s life was not about herself anymore. It was about helping the guy down the street.”
Born Elizabeth Ann Bloomer on April 8, 1918 in Chicago, the youngest of three children grew up in Grand Rapids, Michigan and studied dance at Bennington College in Vermont.
She divorced her first husband William Warren after five years, citing incompatibility, and began dating then-Navy lieutenant Gerald Ford a short time later. The couple married on Oct 15, 1948, just two weeks before Gerald Ford was elected to Congress.
They lived in the Washington area for nearly three decades, as he climbed up the political ladder from the US Capitol to the White House.
“I like challenges very much,” Betty Ford once said. But she said that being first lady was “much more than a 24-hour job than anyone would guess.”
Nancy Reagan called her “Jerry Ford’s strength through some very difficult days in our country’s history, and I admired her courage in facing and sharing her personal struggles with all of us.”
In addition to being a prominent advocate for women, Ford also had a special love for the arts and a profound interest in helping handicapped children.
Trained as a dancer, she gave dance lessons to handicapped youth after performing for a time with choreographer Martha Graham’s renowned dance troupe in New York City.
As a young woman, she also worked as a fashion model and, later, as a department store fashion coordinator.
Ford is survived by her four children Michael, Jack, Steven and Susan, seven grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.